Goal GETTING begins with Goal SETTING…
On average we have anywhere from TWELVE thousand to FIFTY THOUSAND thoughts running through our mind per day this is why goal SETTING is an imperative first step in goal GETTING. I suggest getting clear in your mind about your goals but also always write them down. When you are writing it on paper you are also mentally imprinting it in your mind.
A Letter Written to The Future
It doesn’t even have to be written words but anything that triggers your mind to focus attention on your goal. Right before my husband and I got married we set a mental goal of going to three countries by our one year anniversary, as adults neither of us had ever been out of the U.S. so this was a BIG goal to us. We decided to write it in a letter to ourselves and keep the letter sealed until our one year anniversary then open it and see if we achieved the goals.
Tips when setting your goals:
- Don’t worry about “HOW” you will achieve
- Include WHY you want these things for added energy
- Remember you will be taking ACTION to get to your goals
- Don’t let your past creep in as doubts….this is your FUTURE which is spotless
- Plan the things you CAN plan “If you fail to plan you plan to fail”-Benjamin Franklin
- Be creative because your goals are YOURS only & you wont be motivated by goals of others.
Our First Country was Jamaica where we got married:
Our second Country was The Dominican Republic:
Our Third Country was Mexico:
The feeling of reading a letter you wrote one year ago (to the date) and seeing that you DID achieve your goals is a feeling hard to describe but everyone DESERVES! I know for a fact we wouldn’t have been able to visit these places or learn new things if we didn’t set these goals, write them down & take action.
I am a very “mental” person so if these goals were merely a cloudy thought or idea in my head then those 50 THOUSAND thoughts each day would have over shadowed my dreams and we would have opened that letter having not achieved anything. It’s not magic it’s INTENTION and taking steps.
I really like the idea of ONE year goals because it seems like that’s not too short term but it’s also not long term like 5-10 year plans.
Occasions for setting goals:
NO Occasions are necessary these are just examples of times in life where you start a new path
- Starting a Business or job
- Beginning a financial goal
- Fitness Journey
- Having a child
- Making a lifestyle change
This is a great saying to remember when you are taking steps to get to your destinations:
Getting to your goals is a journey all of it’s own. Here are some other things we were able to check off the bucket list while getting to our destinations:
There are so many amazing opportunities that present themselves as you take action and you will find that you can help others with your new achievements. I love answering questions about destination weddings, Jamaica, Dominican Republic, Mexico, excursions etc. these are things I could have never discussed or helped anyone with a year ago because I didn’t allow myself to experience them.
This is a tradition we will continue to do every year, we have already written out our letter to be opened on our second anniversary!
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